Source: The Availability of a Leader by Aboodi Shabi
The Drucker Foundation has this to say about leadership – “The only definition of leader is someone who has followers”. In other words, as a leader, it is your capacity to engage with others in such a way that they are willing to follow you that marks you as a leader. For all of us who work as leaders, or who take on a leadership role in life, or work with leaders, that capacity for engagement is an on-going process of learning. At this level, we are talking about the ontology of a leader—what is it in our being that we can work on and develop to make us more available as a leader?
One of the questions I ask leaders with whom I work is “How are you unavailable as a leader?” In other words, what aspects of yourself stand in your way of being someone people will want to follow? For example, it might be that you find it hard to say ‘no’. Or it might be that you need to be liked, or that you are very results-focused, and don’t take time to really connect with others. Or you might find it hard to ask for help, or be uncomfortable with not knowing all the answers.
All of these are aspects of our being that require our attention in our own leadership development.Until we identify those areas where we are unavailable, then we can only produce more … Continue reading

